Good, Bad, & Ugly Gossip

What are the other sides of each story in your life?
What are the other sides of each story other people tell you?

Paula Kramer has been researching gossip since 1988. The definitions below are based on more than half a century of research by both male and female researchers.

Gossip is talk and writing about people
— both other people and ourselves —
in family, social, workplace, and public settings.

Men gossip just as much or more than women. They just call it things like “shop talk” or “shooting the breeze”.

Opening doors in relationships is successful when people with closed or slammed doors are both sincere and open-minded. Insincere and close-minded people will not open their doors to your good gossip efforts. Insincerity and closed-mindedness are two clues that you should limit or walk away from a relationship.

 

Good Gossip Opens Doors In Relationships

 

Bad Gossip Closes Doors In Relationships

 

Ugly Gossip Slams Doors In Relationships

 

The good, bad, and ugly gossip definitions are available as a positive peer pressure poster.

 

© Paula M. Kramer, 2015
All rights reserved.
Updated March 26, 2017