Meet Paula Kramer, Positivity Promoter

Resource website for positivity in personal and professional relationships:


Life is the most effective teacher. Paula Kramer’s life of one tragedy after another taught her that failure flares failure and success sparks success. Negativity creates costs. Positivity creates benefits. Even when Paula was suicidally depressed, she took positive actions that paid off later on. Some of the payoffs were tiny triumphs, some were satisfying successes.

Many of her tiny triumphs included gaining respect from people who saw her positivity in spite of her struggles. That respect led to people doing what they could to help Paula spark more satisfying successes. Those successes allowed Paula to spark even more positive payoffs. Paula now promotes positivity to help you put negativity behind you. She provides positive strategies for sparking tiny triumphs and satisfying successes while gaining respect from people who can increase your positive payoffs.

Paula is a former Toastmaster and a current member of Women Speakers Association.

Paula promotes positivity through two online directories: (Almost ready to take members)

Paula’s formula for positivity is purpose, perseverance, and proaction.


Preparatory Reading For Workshops

Paula produced transforming payoffs by creating one tiny triumph after another. Paula Kramer teaches people to transform their own lives with the tiny triumphs that fight failure and spark success. But Paula cannot teach everyone to transform their lives with positivity. So Paula makes the preparatory reading for her workshops available to everyone. Read them and create the tiny triumphs that will help you fight failure and spark success, creating positive payoffs for you.

The Power Of Workplace Gossip: Good, Bad, & Ugly

Gossip Power
4 pages

If you are taking this workshop, follow the directions at the end of the reading.

During the workshop Paula will explain gossip ears
using what you hear to advance your career through positive networking.

After the workshop, Paula will email you a detailed explanation of gossip ears
plus resources for using gossip ears.

Wonder Women Breaking Glass Ceilings:
Inviting Loyalty, Limiting Backlash

Your Wonder Women Tiara
6 pages

If you are taking this workshop, follow the directions at the end of the reading.

During the workshop Paula will explain backlash bewares
beware the natural behavior style and guiding value words and actions
that can create backlash.

After the workshop, Paula will email you a detailed explanation of backlash bewares
plus resources for preventing backlash to your natural behaviors.

Men are welcome to attend this workshop because men also face stereotypes.
They could learn from the male teacher who invited loyalty, limited backlash,
and emerged triumphant from an attempt to force failure on him.


Virtual Workshop Sessions

Paula is in the process of creating virtual sessions for each of these workshops. To receive information about the virtual sessions, join Paula’s mailing list. Benefits of the workshops include:

Strategies for specific situations and relationships.

Networking with other participants on closed Facebook pages to compare notes,
share success stories, and cheer chipped or broken glass ceilings.

Facebook discussions on particular topics. Every other week in each closed group, Paula will
start a discussion with a question or observation. You will be able to participate
in those discussions.

After you sign up and pay for a workshop, Paula will email you the strategies for that workshop. Paula will send you new emails as she updates and adds to the strategies.


Positivity On Facebook

Paula promotes positivity through these Facebook pages:

Best & Brightest Are Ordinary

Girl Goodwill

Sage Citizens

Wonder Women Breaking Glass Ceilings

Words With Wallop

Use the examples on these pages to promote more positivity in your own life at any age.


Positivity Can Change The World

Paula Kramer has 4 invitations for everyone in the world.

Read the preparatory readings for her workshops.

Take advantage of the free resources on this website and the website link at the top of this page.

Use the examples from the Facebook pages to promote positivity in your own life.

Be part of the 3.5% minority that can change the world with positive words and actions.

Please join Paula in producing positive payoffs for the world.


Podcast & Radio Interviews

Women in Leadership with Annemarie Cross
“Smash Through Your Glass Ceiling”

People of Distinction with Al Cole from CBS Radio
March 25, 2018

Shedding the Bitch Radio with Bernadette Boas
“It Takes Girl Grit To End Girl Growls

Women In Trucking Radio Show
October 13, 2018



“After the gossip workshop, communication improved among my immediate coworkers.  The tension in my department dropped dramatically.”
Cathy Dugan

“Paula delivers her message with insight gained from years of reflective personal experience and in-depth research on social behavior.”
Stacy O’Carroll

“Paula’s keen wit, insight, wisdom, and sense of humor shine in her delightful exploration of the topic gossip. Sharing in this exploration with Paula as your guide, you’ll find dimensions unfolding in your mind to open the way to a unique appreciation for the word.”
Will Kennedy

“Well organized. Interesting topic. You write great speeches! Good presentation.”
Rhonda Williams
Professional Trainer and Coach

“The best part of the talk was the way you involved the audience.”
Sue Nelson”

“I liked your hands on approach.”
James Cherwonka

“Paula is inspiring. Her stories are simple and made me realize how easy it can be to change the world. Her talk helped me make a decision I was discerning. I hope to get to hear more of her talks.”
Misty Prater

“Your talk was so popular I had to turn people away at the door.”
Keith DuPuis
Conference Organizer

“I heard many positive comments directly from participants about this session.”
Kathy Davies
Women & Poverty Conference

“After reviewing the evaluations from previous years, we are pleased to extend an invitation to you to again be a workshop presenter at Singlefest.”
Kurt Karnthaler
Day Program Chair

“Thanks again for your moving and insightful presentation. It continues to ‘play on my mind.'”
Janet Boddy

“Kramer covered the general topic of women’s communication with intriguing insights. It was a pleasure to hear such an enthusiastic speaker and I highly recommend Ms. Kramer as a guest speaker.”
Jean Grow
Grow Creative Resources

“Paula told me to say thank you to my crabby husband for any little thing he did to help me. The next time my husband got crabby, I waited until he did something I could say thank you for. By the second thank you he was a lot less crabby. By the third thank you he was happy again.

“Paula enabled me to look at a relationship barrier that I was having with my father. It helped me to open my eyes as to how to interact with him more effectively.”

“I can see how I drive my daughter crazy.”

“Now I know what I need to look for in a woman.”
Kendall Sanders

“You’re a dynamic speaker and an original thinker. There’s lots to learn from you.
Ruth Graf

“Your openness, clarity, and challenge made this an excellent talk. You are also a good listener.”
Dr. Fred Daly

“Your talks were exactly what we were looking for.”
Vicki Hamlin

“Now I know why my girlfriend left me.”
U.S. Soldier

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Last updated April 27, 2020.